Today's Topic: KIDS
I make this today's topic because I'm a
nanny and today I just need to vent about the
kids I watch. I don't know if it's because I'm just tired from lack of sleep or because I've been with them
10 hours a day for the last week and a half, or because it's almost that time of the month, but I am just so irritated with them the last two days. I love these girls to death, but I think the biggest problem I have with them is that they are too
spoiled. Their parents let them do whatever they want, eat whatever they want, and buy them whatever they want...and they (the kids) know it.
Now, they're not the typical spoiled brat girls that you see in movies, where they talk back and only care about themselves, thank God. However, since they do get whatever they want, when they don't, they whine and
Miss 5-Going-On-30 throws a tantrum. And in the end, they get what they wanted in the first place, so no lesson is taught, and they don't learn anything. Uh, yeah,
Miss Sarah does
not tolerate that.
When I first started working for them, they were pretty bad in that aspect, but after a few months of teaching them that that is not how you're supposed to act and they need to be grateful for what they have already (which is way more than I ever had when I was their age), they slowly but surely got better....however, only when I was watching them. As soon as one of their parents walked through the door at 6pm though, they went right back to their old ways.
Ugh. But the thing that made me laugh a little inside, was that the
mom would admit to me that she knows they act better with me and then go crazy when she has them, and she doesn't understand why. Hah! Well lets see, I actually discipline your children and don't give them whatever they ask for, that may be why.
It's been almost a year now since I've been with these girls and they act a lot better and from what I've heard from
Miss Lazy-Know-It-All, her sister doesn't throw tantrums anymore when she doesn't get her way (when I'm not there). The greatest thing is that
Miss 5-Going-On-30 knows now that it's not good to throw tantrums, so she'll get all excited when she tells me she went to a store and didn't get mad when she didn't get something she wanted. So I give her a high-5 and tell her what a good job she's doing.
The only thing that we're still working on (well me mostly), is my 'say-so' getting overruled. The girls will ask me for something or to do something, and if I say no,
Miss Lazy-Know-It-All will then (sometimes) text her
mom or
dad for the same exact thing, and of course they say yes. That has only happened a few times, but depending on what it is, I will either stick to what I said, or let the parent's decision overrule. They will also do the same thing when the parents come home, usually when it involves sweets. They will have already had a dessert with me, and then when the
mom comes home, they will ask for another, and I will say that they've already had one. And of course, mom will say yes...(still working on that with the parents and enforcing my rules).
The last two days, they've gone back to their old ways a little bit, and I think that's another reason why I'm so
stressed out. I've been trying to keep a good attitude and stick to my rules, but I'm just so tired that I've caught myself slipping, and letting them get away with things I don't normally let them do.
I need to stay strong (and breathe...) because I'm with them for 10 hours a day for the next few weeks until I finally get a week
vacation, which will be
very much needed!